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 Considering one’s readiness to
parent could be a factor in whether to make a decision for
adoption. Single parenting is a very popular decision these
days. It is often a challenging task. Statistics reveal that
a great many struggle with the demands of this life style
choice as do their children.
To help in the process of
considering one’s readiness to parent, the following is
offered as questions to ponder to help you clarify your
situation and
 how single parenting could impact your life.
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How will a child impact my
life at the current time? (i.e. education, social life,
dating, finances, time demands, etc.)
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How would having the
responsibility of raising a child effect my future?
(i.e. education, career, marriage, finances, etc.)
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What are the long term
ramifications and consequences of my decision, whether
it be for parenting or adoption?
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Am I willing to devote the
time to be a responsible parent? (i.e. to go to doctors
appointments, stay up in the middle of the night with a
sick child, to read parenting books and equip myself
with the skills I need, to have limitations on my social
life, etc.)
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Can I provide for my child
the things I want for my child?
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Can I raise my child and be
independent or will I be dependent upon others? (i.e.
financially, transportation, housing, meeting the
physical needs of my child, etc.)
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Do I have the support system
to help me? (i.e. parents, family, friends)
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In what ways will I need
help, to what extent and for how long?
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Can I handle a job, a child,
a social life and do the other things I want to do at
the same time? Am I ready for this responsibility?
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Am I willing to have a
life-long relationship with the father of the baby and
his family? To what extent will this be a factor now and
in the future?
Again, these are just some
relevant questions to consider. There are other helpful
materials to review on parenting as well as other people you
could consult with to shed additional light on this issue.
You can certainly contact us for more information on this. |
